we broke up!


Breaking up is hard, but this ones a good break up.
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  • Joe Jitsukawa
    Joe Jitsukawa5 aylar önce

    I’m trying to go down and like every comment to show that I read it. All the love and hate included. It doesn’t mean I agree with anyone, especially the hate toward Jess. Fuck you losers that have any hate for her.

  • Killer Boi

    Killer Boi

    2 aylar önce

    Trojan D fuckwit



    4 aylar önce

    wishing you both the best of luck in your futures! breakups are natural, and i’ve been a quiet supporter of the JK team since i was a teenager. saw y’all get together, watched bart & geo go from long term to when they got married & saw them have their son, was there when julia arrived *and* when she left, and when gina was a new face and david was making goofy commentary videos before the commentary community even existed. i’ll have respect for y’all together and separately and i really hope that you guys can handle your business in private without too much speculation from any randoms(including me lmao! but i’m not gonna do ya like that). really, take care of yourselves and keep on keepin’ on! joemalia is standing strong! 💪🌻✨

  • SD Kitty

    SD Kitty

    4 aylar önce

    Joe Jitsukawa it’s no ones fault you guys do what’s best for you, best of luck

  • Yap Harry

    Yap Harry

    5 aylar önce

    I'm actually gg thru the same shit as you, 5 lovely years but we were v different. Weren't meant to be but things happen :'( But idk how to cope w it. She really want to be best friends but its just so difficult as we spent a huge amt of time of our life tgt and i still have feelings for her

  • Win Rato
    Win Rato3 gün önce

    Just gone thru a breakup and i too feel like we’ve become family. I thought i was crazy at first for not wanting to cut him out of my life. but breaking up, not hating each other and hoping the best for one another really does feel light. He was my greatest love and i feel like a better person because he made me want to be, so im glad he agreed this type of breakup is good for us. I missed him tonight and remembered this video so i had to watch it again to affirm the decision we both agreed on making was a good idea not worth messing up. Thank you for making this video, joe and jess. You’ve helped me avoid a viscous cycle of breaking up and getting back together and then breaking up again until we end up hating each other. This video really made my heart open. Light and love to the both of you✨

  • TheHotBoi
    TheHotBoi4 gün önce

    Saw this happening a mile away lol. YIKES. Tip. Don't be a TRlistr, or you'll lose ya girl, or she'll get this BBC :D

  • whatever
    whatever6 gün önce

    This felt like such a cathartic video for the both of you. I really wish the best for you both. ❤️❤️❤️

  • ronnie ledford
    ronnie ledford11 gün önce

    Joe is a good guy. Jess is .......

  • Jesses DADA
    Jesses DADA22 gün önce

    GL finding a new fuck hole loser !hahahaha

  • Titan H
    Titan H26 gün önce

    Aww they would have had some cute babies.

  • corn dawgz
    corn dawgz29 gün önce

    why does joe remind me of an asian steve harvey with hair

  • Tiffany Yang
    Tiffany YangAylar önce

    Thank you for sharing this. Been going through a breakup similar to your guys’ as well and it’s hard loving the person so much but not having them in your life for the moment.

  • Samuel Sir
    Samuel SirAylar önce

    I haven’t cried since Titanic. I didn’t even shed a tear when Wong Fu Phil proposed. But this video...omg 😢😢😢

  • Lexi S.
    Lexi S.Aylar önce

    That is a beautiful photo at the end! Much happiness to the two of you.

  • michelle chin
    michelle chinAylar önce


  • Turok87
    Turok87Aylar önce

    This is so late but outside influences are typically bad. Judging and comparing relationships is not healthy in its own way. I felt like your idea on what love is should be your own. To hold each other back is only a standard held in its own too. We create a bad agenda around that sort of thing when it actually could be good because you are actually improving each other. You don’t have to show you’re in love all the time. When Steven and Nikki talk about their relationship and how love should be is really only their own. I’ve seen mature love where display is not there but they true heartedly believe and trust each other that they are in love. Love is just compromise maybe you want to change for someone because it’s just worth it. Either way It’s just maturing love not holding each other back. Anyways I hope my opinion shows that the standard of love is warped and that I believe your relationship was great just not understanding how to move forward with it. We live in a generation where things are so fast and it’s okay. Embrace it move with it but don’t be it. Create your own agenda and love that woman.

  • Meagan Monsayac
    Meagan MonsayacAylar önce

    Wow...I can really relate to this so much me and my ex broke up but it was a mutual agreement and it was because of the same reasons as Joe and Jess like petty arguments, and turning each other into something else we aren’t meant to be. And I loved his family sooo much because I wasn’t close with my family and his family became like the parents I needed and wanted...Watching this makes my heart ache because I feel the same and it’s been hard for me but thank you for making this video it has put my break up in a better light. As I felt so angry and upset at him but also at myself. So thank you for this video :)

  • Big 1400
    Big 1400Aylar önce

    Asian mickey mouse lookin ass

  • Big 1400
    Big 1400Aylar önce

    Shutup, you white man

  • Reiann
    ReiannAylar önce

    I just broke up with my bf of 13 years and I'm so lost most of the time. Im glad I found this video

  • Carolina Leon
    Carolina LeonAylar önce

    You two had me crying but things happen for a reason and I hope both of you find your happiness.

  • Chiko Rekis
    Chiko RekisAylar önce

    What 😭😭😭😭😭

  • Taylor Jackson
    Taylor Jackson2 aylar önce

    I only just saw this, but you guys are awesome. I didn't expect this, but the way you guys handled this was amazing. I wish you guys love and happiness. ♥️

  • JackGeezy


    Gün önce

    Is that you in pic

  • DrSnausage
    DrSnausage2 aylar önce

    just get married already

  • Frankenstein MatataZz
    Frankenstein MatataZz2 aylar önce

    Honestly my ex and I just grew out of love one another. It just happens. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • asianlevelpersuasion
    asianlevelpersuasion2 aylar önce

    Girls always be lyin'!

  • Siete
    Siete2 aylar önce

    I remember watching this video a couple weeks back and thinking how much it sounded like my relationship but was hoping i was overthinking. Two days ago my gf of two years told me she couldn't handle a relationship right now and would be better off alone. I miss her existence in my life. I just wish i knew what i had before I lost it.

  • wbebr L
    wbebr L2 aylar önce

    It sucks to hear about this...best of luck to both of you! It seems like both of you did everything to make it work and things just didn't work out. Hopefully, y'all could stay in touch as friends! Cheers to yh.

  • American Patriot
    American Patriot2 aylar önce

    Years in the making!

  • om yongsuwankul
    om yongsuwankul2 aylar önce


  • __________________________________
    __________________________________2 aylar önce

    Joe your dad wants you guys to stay together.

  • jean D
    jean D2 aylar önce

    Ive been watching u two all these years... Then i saw this!!!! Im not yet half way through the video. But im already crying... Its sucks how u gotta let go of ur significant other just to make each other feel better and know whats best for each other.... I can see u really love each other,but there are things u cant explain why yall gotta go on different path.... I love how your relationship works coz both parties are matured enough to understand each other perspective in life... I hope all the best to both of you. You two are both amazing people!!! I Hope the next time yall get together again, its gonna be all in the right time and place... Best of luck... Im crying...

  • MaxxG
    MaxxG2 aylar önce

    you will either grow together or apart. check out Coach Corey Wayne..

  • Wavvy


    2 aylar önce

    They already grew apart

  • Rawwwr Tj
    Rawwwr Tj2 aylar önce

    Opening up never again. Too damaged. Don’t know how to undo.

  • Rawwwr Tj
    Rawwwr Tj2 aylar önce

    Been 5 days in China and already shady. Sus everywhere. Don’t trust anybody.

  • The swole BRO terrence bembury
    The swole BRO terrence bembury2 aylar önce

    She is like hell yeah ,she road your wave to her success.. it was so obvious the entire time.... ORDER 66 pasty paste Ex girl who might be a dude

  • This One01

    This One01

    2 aylar önce

    Are you saying Joe was having sex with someone who might be a dude. Hmmm.

  • Ryan Jay Carreon
    Ryan Jay Carreon2 aylar önce

    It’s just... you have a small dick and we’re not meant to be

  • This One01

    This One01

    2 aylar önce

    She did say the biggest dick she ever had was a Mexican. So we know it wasn't Joe.

  • Ocean Pacific

    Ocean Pacific

    2 aylar önce

    Okay incel

  • Phouvan Chan
    Phouvan Chan2 aylar önce

    Awwww....i had to stop watching after jess started to cry! BCUZ i felt her heartaches! I was crying tooooo!!! But love can conquer ALL you guys....and i see the sacrifices y'all are doin for each other.SO i believe maybeeee one day y'all will realize that ur actually meant to be together. Good luck guys! And fuck da haters!!! Keep laughing!!😋😘

  • Rachel Garnier
    Rachel Garnier2 aylar önce

    The only other TRlist breakup video I ever cared to watch.

  • cutepinksocks
    cutepinksocks2 aylar önce

    everything happens for a reason

  • cutepinksocks
    cutepinksocks2 aylar önce

    this is what an ideal breakup wound be like in a perfect world... it's very refreshing to see that. I can tell you guys got a lot of love for each other. In fact I think there may be a possibility of things working out in the future... who knows :) in the end, lovers should really be best friends. the intimacy is just the cherry on top. but nothing compares to that unconditional love you have for someone to want to see them happy even if it's not with you. happy for you guys

  • Aspiring Runner
    Aspiring Runner3 aylar önce

    I think *Chris Stapleton* made the perfect song for you two (Either Way). My favorite cover is by Teddy Swims 'trlist.info/video/o9RjpMfO0piq1Hg'

  • Luptuous Life
    Luptuous Life3 aylar önce

    Sorry to hear the news but so glad that it ended the way it did. In a mutual, kind and loving way. Well, life is full of twists and turns that lead to endless new and exciting adventures! "Not meant to be but meant to happen" You guys are definitely connected on a spirit level. =)

  • Major X93
    Major X933 aylar önce


  • Lobsang Palden
    Lobsang Palden3 aylar önce

    Maybe be both need sometime. After watching this both made for each other for long years. God bless you both.

  • Celeste Loma
    Celeste Loma3 aylar önce

    I'm sorry you guys I love you and I'm so happy and proud that you guys where able to maturely asses your relationship and make the decision to break it off in a healthy way best of luck to you and I wish you growth and happiness

  • Freedom Hiker_CA
    Freedom Hiker_CA3 aylar önce

    He’s an Aries ♈️ like me We are very independent & hyper af 🤣 We need tons of adventures. We get bored very easily with same ole routine 💤 Ppl who are lacking passion & energies, find us threat or can’t keep up with us . I can relate to this . It should not take them 5 years to realize they aren’t each other type . It should take then 30-90 days the most in my opinion .. I feel sad for her 😢 5 years is a LONG time . They need to embrace each other differences & work it out IF they still love each other . Wishing them all the best 🍀 ❤️🌺

  • Sameer Baria
    Sameer Baria3 aylar önce

    You guys have been such an inspiration, thank you so much for being who you guys are Keep it real like always ❤️ Wishing you the best for both of you

  • teddylifer
    teddylifer3 aylar önce

    You better cry Joe!!!! I was about to rip you apart if you didn't!!!

  • William Örtenblad
    William Örtenblad3 aylar önce

    this is just mudda sad man

  • blaise russo
    blaise russo3 aylar önce

    OK boomer

  • Gio


    3 aylar önce

    Ok boomers

  • 1corn
    1corn3 aylar önce

    I'm not sure whether to like this video or not :( It sucks breaking up but for long term, it's for the best.

  • lydia win
    lydia win3 aylar önce

    She actually looks the best with no makeup

  • Lenny
    Lenny3 aylar önce

    I'm glad you guys got together to grow even more. Hope you guys visit each other once in a while. Wish you guys the best

  • realliferascal V
    realliferascal V3 aylar önce

    Haven’t been into the jk vids for a bit but i was shocked and sad to hear this happened. Hope y’all are all good. On the up from here 🙌

  • Nite Driv3r
    Nite Driv3r3 aylar önce

    Dat white pussy finally got tired of dat lil Asian dick

  • Tony Vang
    Tony Vang3 aylar önce

    It’s ok Joe I still love you 💖

  • mono
    mono3 aylar önce

    it was obvious when jess never laughed at joes jokes

  • WatanabeKun90s
    WatanabeKun90s3 aylar önce

    Im fuckin upset 😭

  • Juelle
    Juelle3 aylar önce

    Thank you for showing what a thoughtful and mature relationship looks like. Thank you for giving it your best shot. I pray for comfort for you both and happiness, joy, and peace.

  • Michael Reaper
    Michael Reaper3 aylar önce

    I'm sorry you guys didn't work out, I love you both anyways. Hopefully you guys will still be friends, and things work out for the best.

  • A Nny
    A Nny3 aylar önce

    Your breakup inspire me to break up a toxic relationship ..

  • matt toshi
    matt toshi4 aylar önce

    Hey Joe and Jess i hope you guys pull through it and all the best to both of yous its a sad thing. i wish yous great future my heart goes out to both party's stay strong guys would be good see do jk news together but in your own time all the best to Joe and Jess for been real sharing it to everyone. Hope is to meet everyone jk firms love what you guys do . From Matt in the down under